Mother’s don’t forget our daughters

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Since everyone is talking about Mimi Faust and her porn with fake Stevie J.(Nikko ), I decided to add my two cent. Yes I think it is in poor taste.  Yes I think he is using Mimi to get two of her five minutes of fame. However,  I see a sad and bigger issue.

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What about poor little Eva, the precious baby girl that she co-parents with Stevie J. The very same daughter that she didn’t want that, “tramp bitch” Joseline Hernandez any where near. Why as a mother, who claims to be a “lady” and a “role model ” for your daughter would you make porn(Yes, I said porn because that is what it)?  Don’t worry Mimi, I will wait……..

I think it is messed up that a lot of mothers tend to forget about their daughters and how their actions will affect them. Yes, I have had my moments of very poor judgement and I have done things that the mature Me frowns upon. However, once I became a mother, I changed. More than that, once I had my daughter, I cut a lot of bull sh#t because I had someone that was looking to Me for the blueprint to womanhood. Now I know that we have no control over what our kids do and the path that they take in life but we lay the foundation.  As parents it is our responsibility to give our children roots(to grow) and wings( to soar), not expose them to sex, lies and video tapes.

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It makes for good TV ratings and I am sure Vivid is going to pay good but when the money is gone and the show is canceled,  your daughter will be there looking at you, with questions and embarrassment.  Yeah you worked that shower curtain but how will you work that conversation that your going to be forced to have with Eva? Having sex with a man on camera, looking toyally coked up and selling it to for public viewing; is this behavior you want your daughter to  emulate? I think not!!!

I know that life is to be lived but damn mothers don’t forget about your daughters. Don’t plant seeds in them that you don’t want to grow.

April 14, 2014

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8 Comments

  1. misskittywally

    April 14, 2014

    I honestly wonder if drugs are involved. I loved Mimi first season and then the little bit that I saw of her last season… She just seemed way off… Who knows, perhaps she reached her breaking point and just snapped. I pray for her and the family

    • iamphatgirlfresh

      April 14, 2014

      I totally think that drugs played a part.

  2. Marlon IammusicPeriod Pitmon

    April 15, 2014

    I think people should chill!! It is there business and nobody was saying shit to Joseline and Stevie when they were posting pics online! But she puts out a sex tape and now you all are suddenly great christians!!! BOOO!!! #SLEEPY

    • iamphatgirlfresh

      April 15, 2014

      I think that she is entitled to do as she pleases when it is all said and done. However, as a mother is that what she want her daughter to see. And she is a hypocrite for talking so bad a Joseline. For the things that she has done. I am not speaking as a Christian, I am speaking as a mother. As I stated, the young Me has done plenty of dumb shit.

  3. SparkleTheStylist

    April 16, 2014

    Great blog post. Another thing that saddens me is that Nikko was able to coheres her into recording the tape, which definitely makes me think drugs were a factor. He needed her to dispose of his gay rumors. This tape was his idea and the fact that her own mind was not strong enough makes me wonder what else she ” can’t” handle. Poor Eva…

    • iamphatgirlfresh

      April 16, 2014

      Thank you Sparkle. Yes, I think that she is super weak and broke. Nikko, is definitely using her for many reasons in my opinion one being to dispose the gay rumors, like gay men don’t sleep with women. She is a educated black woman who is a mother and a entrepreneur, but she threw shade on all of that, for a man. She may as well have stayed in the triangle with Stevie and Joseline, at least Stevie was going to take care of her and Eva. Lol!!!!! It is just sad.

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